Building a mind that is bigger, funnier, and sexierHere's one of my favorite litmus tests. “A quicker intelligence test, which also indicates the trajectory of your development, is this:
If the world seems to be getting bigger and funnier all the time, your intelligence is steadily increasing.
If the world seems to be getting smaller and nastier all the time, your stupidity is steadily increasing.”
- Robert Anton Wilson, The Illuminati Papers
“The only sensible goal, then, is to try to build a reality-tunnel for next week that is bigger, funnier, sexier, more optimistic and generally less boring than any previous reality-tunnel.”
-Robert Anton Wilson, Prometheus Rising
We're not always good at being big, funny, and sexy. (speak for yourself, Shankin 🤪) We come to psychedelics to help us find our way. To find a new way. To become new; big, funny, sexy. We're taking out lives in our hands. We're taking responsibility for ourselves, maybe for the first time in our lives. “Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills.”
— Jim Rohn, The Art of Exceptional Living
Our bigness is our responsibility. If we're not going to make it fun, how can we expect anyone else to do it for us? We've got to not make it the world's problem. We can't pass the buck. I know the world is mad. I'm pretty sure the world is often mad. There have been apocalyptic visions and doomsday cults since the beginning of recorded history. The world is going to be the world, it's always going to have a lot going on. We're going to like some bits, we're not going to like other bits. I think the key word in RAW's quote is "Seems." We know what Maharajji said, "When a pickpocket meets a saint, he sees only pockets." Our perspective matters a lot. Our ability to change our perspective is a crucial life skill. Samsara and nirvana are one. Many of us have cultivated some ability to shift our realities at least a little bit, we've become a little more happy, forgiving, and considerate, and wouldn't you know it, people seem to be nicer to us. A miracle! We've become masters of manifestion! Who would have guessed. Sometimes when we work together we can create social change, which means bigger and funnier and sexier for more people, and we love that. But what if there is more to it? What if reality has more flexibility that we give it credit for? What if we could jump in ways that are wildly more amazing that we could have ever thought possible? I think it's worth a try. I always have. I'm a sensible person. I'm optimistic. And I want a better reality tunnel. I also want a better reality tunnel for you. Please contemplate RAW's words. Think about what you can build, no matter how small. It will grow over time. And let me know what you come up with. Keep a notebook. Report back. Come to circle or golden road or just drop me a note. I want to hear all about it. Especially if it's big, funny, and sexy. The GardenLos AndesAeroform - Live!❤️ Training Weekend in San FranciscoNovember 6th to 8th in the Mission Evoke the innate wisdom of your client with curiosity and presence. Skillfully move past blocks that stall your client's integration.Discover the unparalleled impact of mindful inquiry and deep listening in your Psychedelic Integration Coaching. You’ll learn coaching techniques designed to awaken your clients’ inner resourcefulness. You’ll be able to practice them in our community container so that you can see how they work in real-time. Join me for a transformative weekend, where we delve into the essence of Psychedelic Integration Coaching— asking good questions. Inquiry is a practice that goes beyond mere discussions of microdosing protocols, or educational sessions on molecules and dosages. Move beyond just lecturing your clients. Move beyond reactionary advice-giving; embrace the true art of coaching. It’s time to recognize that your true value as a coach comes from your ability to be deeply present for your , to take your seat as a compassionate companion on the path in the truest way possible. Fractal Inquiry allows you to meet your client as your authentic self, which ultimately maximizes the you can offer them. Offerings~ Integration CirclesOpen Circles on the 1st and 3rd Mondays of the month. They will be at 3pm Eastern, Noon Pacific. Women's Circles, every Thursday at 9pm Eastern, 6pm Pacific You can join here: https://sqr.co/tamcircle/ ~ The Golden Road - Mentorship, Peer Support, Supervision, and Skill Building for Serious Psychonauts and Healing ProfessionalsThe Golden Road has evolved into a wonderful group of practitioners. We meet every Thursday at noon eastern. There is also a large archive (over 200 hours) of psychedelic education and past talks. The wonderful people who show up share not only their journeys, but the journeys of those they steward. It's become a place of learning, support, accountability, and peer review. Folks are learning some things from me, but they are also learning from each other. We all face unique challenges as we work in this space, and it's great to have a place where we can bring them for non-judgmental feedback and reflection. You're invited. Click here to join Golden Road is a group of coaches and guides that are growing their practices and coming together in the spirit of personal and professional peer support. You also get some teaching and Q&A with yours truly. The main group meeting is Thursdays at noon Eastern. Here's the link to that. DisclaimerNothing in this email should be considered medical or legal advice. We're not suggesting that you break any laws or do anything dangerous. This email is offered as education and entertainment in the spirit of harm reduction. Consult medical and legal professionals if you have questions. Sometimes, there are affiliate links in this email. It helps support this project. Thank you! |
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